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I think women marry expectations: They see the reality of someone, but they think they can change it. I hung in there for a while, until there came a time when I couldn’t anymore.And I think men marry who the woman is at that moment—they don’t feel like she will ever change and can’t handle it when she evolves. My second husband was six years younger than I was: When we got married, I was 36.He was also faithful, had incredible integrity, and was respected in his community. In order for someone to understand what I do, they have to realize it’s a major time commitment.My father was my example of what I expected to find in a partner. When you’re on set or doing eight shows a week, you’re just not available all the time. On top of those demands on my time, dating was a challenge because I still had my daughter at home.
As a mom, there are a lot of danger zones and minefields, and you’ve got to be really careful. Meeting Jim, my third husband, was completely unexpected.But also, my expectations of a relationship had a really high benchmark because of my father.He was so good at everything: He could fix a car, he could do electrical work, he could build anything, he was a problem solver.I want to be clear: I’ve been married three times, and all my husbands are good men.I wouldn’t have married them if they weren’t decent people.