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So in 2030, I think we’ll be somewhere very different, and I think today’s nine-year-olds will have really incredible ways of finding love when they’re 25.
Being told you should like a nice guy who you don't find attractive is the literal worst. I would also advise against dating the "nice" guy: the guy who isn't really nice, but rather is desperate. You are a girl, and nearby, so that makes you Perfect For Him.
And for people who have no interest in serious dating and just want to find people to hook up with?
Online is a much better way to accomplish that too.
I have been on 11 dates (11 DATES) with a guy I couldn't bring myself to kiss more recently than I want to admit because 1) he was really interested, 2) I wasn't into anyone else was at the time, and 3) I was getting so much pressure from family and friends to just "date a nice guy already," after several weird situations with jerks that I wanted to really try with this one. He will, without much concern for your feelings on the matter, overwhelm you with needy gestures to win your heart, and probably call you a bitch when you finally lay it out for him that you just don't feel the same.
That guy actually was a nice guy — our personalities were just not a fit — but I remembered doing a sneaky sniff test of his shirt and not. He also doesn't seem aware that women need to be attracted to him too, or he'd stop letting his mom cut his hair. This guy is a probably a friend of a friend who randomly took his shirt off at group hang-out indoors in the wintertime while making eye contact with you and you felt so awkward about it that you had to fade out from the entire group. The sweet spot is the GOOD guy: the guy who will refrain from huge romantic gestures until he knows you well enough to include an inside joke on the card that comes with the flowers. Dating these guys (provided you're attracted to them, and it's funny how that attraction can sneak up on you), is a happy, healthy, life-affirming experience.
from Brooklyn, NY for suggesting this week’s topic: Online dating, once a fringe and stigmatized activity, is now over a billion industry.
Over 40 million Americans have given online dating a try, and over a of the American couples married between 20 met online.
e Harmony started in 2000, Ok Cupid in 2004, and more recently, a wave of mobile people-swiping apps, like Tinder and Hinge, have become wildly popular.
I’ve already expressed my argument for why in two posts: one on how critical it is to find the right life partner and how seriously we should take that quest, and another on why going to bars is a terrible life experience.
The first step in ending up with the right person is meeting the right person, and for something so important in our lives, we’ve had for doing it efficiently and intelligently.
When you love a nice guy you'll know it's real—you're not mistaking pain with depth of feeling because he's not hurting you. Enjoy not having to make excuses for his bad behavior, or failure to show up, and be prepared for how happy but also slightly jealous they'll be to see you smiling all the time.
Making your most intimate, important relationship a connection with someone who's actually worth your time and feelings is a gift to yourself. Want more of Bustle's Sex and Relationships coverage?