My friend dating my crush
We have both been moving around the world separately during the last few years, but every time we finally get to meet again and catch up it feels like the world stops (sorry for the cheesiness! He is one of the very few people I feel like I can relax with, and he means the world to me.Almost every time we hang out, we always end up sleeping together (not having sex, nor making out), just lying there holding each other in our underwear.It’s not uncommon to develop feelings for close friends.
If you date him, you could lose her friendship forever.
It’s always wrong to date your best friend’s ex, right? If there aren’t any hard feelings, she’s probably not going to mind.
Despite what girl code might say, it’s not always so black and white. Just make sure she’s not still interested in him first.
It’s pretty clear, from what you describe here, that that blurry line (between friendship and more than friendship) exists on both sides. I am 100% sure that I would not be okay with my partner sleeping with his female friend, holding her, in his boxer briefs. I would tell him how I feel and open up that dialogue.
Sure, all that sexual tension can be fun for a minute, but after years of this, it will be a relief to get it all out in the open. If the feelings are reciprocal, he owes it to you and to Anna to make a decision and act accordingly — meaning don’t act on those feelings until/unless he breaks things off with her.