Dating a secretive person
They prefer to sit and think own their own than to socialize with others.6) Some people also keep in a lot of personal details and opinions for fear of being ridiculed due to low self-esteem.7) There are people who have deep dark secrets that they don't want anyone to know about.8) Some people are genuinely paranoid.
I ignored it and continued to socialize with the group.
I’ll make it clear at this point that I have never had any problems with him having nights out with the guys or whoever – it had just never been an issue for me.
At points I have even encouraged him to get out and do it since I’d noticed he hadn’t for a while!
For a long time he’s been telling me that he seems to have a bad reaction to alcohol after just a few pints at the most. I’ve never had a problem with his drinking either, and I drink plenty myself, especially on a night out. Wounded to have been lied to and not trusted to be understanding or accommodating of his social needs. Accused of holding him to standards I’ve never held or expressed – of unreasonable reactions I’ve never had. I am now questioning the motivation for his (what seem to me, pointless) cover-ups and lies.
I would be very interested to have some male insight into this!
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(Read above for details) This will move your question to the top of the line. I’m not entirely sure whether this is peculiar to him or our relationship.